EMDR therapy · Complex & attachment trauma
Trauma that happened in relationships heals in one.
EMDR therapy for adults who grew up having to take care of themselves, and are tired of doing it alone. Online, across Florida.

Annie Shapiro, MA
EMDR-trained · LGBTQ+ affirming

Annie Shapiro, MA
EMDR-trained · LGBTQ+ affirming
What it can look like as an adult.
When closeness wasn't safe or consistent growing up, your nervous system found ways to cope. They often show up in one of three shapes.
Holding on
Scanning for signs someone's pulling away. Over-texting, over-explaining, over-giving. Calm only comes when you're reassured.
Keeping distance
Fiercely independent. Needing people feels risky, so you don't. Feelings get handled privately, or not at all.
Both at once
Wanting closeness and fearing it. Pulling someone in, then pushing them away. Feeling confusing, even to yourself.
It doesn't only show up in relationships. It shows up in your body, too.
A nervous system that learned closeness wasn't safe can stay on alert long after the danger is gone.
Panic attacks
Sudden waves of fear, a racing heart, or feeling like you can't breathe, sometimes out of nowhere.
Never quite feeling safe
Always a little on guard, scanning, even when nothing is wrong.
Dissociation
Feeling far away, foggy or numb, or like you or the world isn't quite real.
Shutting down
Going blank or freezing in conflict, then struggling to explain what happened.
A body that never rests
Tension, jumpiness, trouble sleeping, or exhaustion that rest doesn't fix.
Deep shame
A quiet, constant sense that something is wrong with you.
These aren't labels or diagnoses, just common experiences. Most people recognize a mix. If you're having thoughts of harming yourself, call or text 988.
Why EMDR, and why slowly.
Attachment wounds are stored as feelings and body reactions, not just stories, so talking alone often doesn't reach them. EMDR helps the brain reprocess those early experiences so they stop running the present. With complex trauma, we build a strong foundation before we ever go there.
- 1
A secure base first. Consistency, trust, and tools to calm your body before anything else.
- 2
Meet the parts that protect you. Ego state and parts work, so no part of you gets steamrolled.
- 3
Reprocess, in small pieces. EMDR on the memories underneath the pattern, at your pace.
- 4
Practice being close. New ways of trusting, asking for what you need, and staying.
You learned to survive on your own. You don't have to heal that way.
I'm Annie.
I work with high-achieving adults carrying complex and attachment trauma: people who are capable, caring, and quietly running on empty. I was an elite athlete, and I live with chronic illness, so I know how good we can get at overriding our own needs.
My work combines EMDR, ego state and parts work, clinical hypnosis, and somatic approaches. Every part of you is welcome here.
Start with a free 15-minute call.
- Where
- Online · Florida
- Fee
- $200 / 50 min · $325 / 90 min
- Insurance
- Private pay